Tonybere
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Location: ON Joined: 02.04.2016
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that makes no sense. if your brain decides to go haywire on you thats not something you can control and can be catastrophic.
for example:
I was a normal functioning adult in my early 20's. Starting my career, dating, going out to the bars, etc. One day at work i thought i was going to die, out of nowhere. Tunnel vision, heart racing, throwing up, sweating, etc. Long story short it turned out i had all of a sudden gotten a panic attack for no reason at all. Couldnt leave my apartment for 2 weeks. After i finally got to see doctors it turned out it was panic disorder with agoraphobia. Literally the thought of being outside of my comfort zone and getting another panic attack was giving me panic attacks. Every day. Multiple times per day.
Finally got it under control and then boom 5 years later i got smacked with it even worse. Months of that same thing. And this is classified as a form of anxiety, so you have no idea what Drouin had, except that he literally couldnt sleep. If i was a professional athlete would this somehow be my fault? - picklerick
Nope, not at all your fault. And, I would think that your employer, the Montreal Canadiens, would have programs in place to offer you assistance.
But, roughly 700 people have the ability to play in the NHL. If you can't suit up for the most important games your team has, while they are paying you in the top 1% of North American earners (for argument's sake), then why shouldn't you be replaced? Fault has nothing to do with it.
If I can't perform my duties for my employer due to mental health issues, my company is most likely going to be fine financially. If I were making $5M a year instead of $X0,000, I can appreciate that there would be a limit to how much of an absence might be allowed.
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picklerick
New York Rangers |
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Location: New York, NY Joined: 03.01.2018
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Nope, not at all your fault. And, I would think that your employer, the Montreal Canadiens, would have programs in place to offer you assistance.
But, roughly 700 people have the ability to play in the NHL. If you can't suit up for the most important games your team has, while they are paying you in the top 1% of North American earners (for argument's sake), then why shouldn't you be replaced? Fault has nothing to do with it.
If I can't perform my duties for my employer due to mental health issues, my company is most likely going to be fine financially. If I were making $5M a year instead of $X0,000, I can appreciate that there would be a limit to how much of an absence might be allowed. - Tonybere
if your company fined you for that they'd get sued for big time $$.. that's not correct.
i just dont get how this is different than an injury to your body. same result for the team... |
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picklerick
New York Rangers |
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Location: New York, NY Joined: 03.01.2018
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what happened to you is different
this is a place where we trade players, we buyout players, we say players suck, we say players are overpaid, we send players to the AHL
this is what hockeybuzz is, saying anything about Drouin, IS NOT DIRECTED AT YOU - jimbro83
what happened to me is not different. i'm not taking it personally, i'm just trying to educate you. but you guys are all "back in my day when men were men" types so as usual i'm pissing in the wind |
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jimbro83
New York Rangers |
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Location: Lets Go Rangers!, NY Joined: 12.25.2009
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Nope, not at all your fault. And, I would think that your employer, the Montreal Canadiens, would have programs in place to offer you assistance.
But, roughly 700 people have the ability to play in the NHL. If you can't suit up for the most important games your team has, while they are paying you in the top 1% of North American earners (for argument's sake), then why shouldn't you be replaced? Fault has nothing to do with it.
If I can't perform my duties for my employer due to mental health issues, my company is most likely going to be fine financially. If I were making $5M a year instead of $X0,000, I can appreciate that there would be a limit to how much of an absence might be allowed. - Tonybere
equating the lives of athletes with our own is always stupid regardless of the context
its like when someone compares the salary of a million dollar athlete to so,ebody who works their balls off 50 hours a week for 20 dollars an hour
the comparison is always dumb no matter how you cut it |
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jimbro83
New York Rangers |
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Location: Lets Go Rangers!, NY Joined: 12.25.2009
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what happened to me is not different. i'm not taking it personally, i'm just trying to educate you. but you guys are all "back in my day when men were men" types so as usual i'm pissing in the wind - picklerick
but that ISNT my point
I care about what happened to you
I don't care about Jonathan Drouin
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picklerick
New York Rangers |
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Location: New York, NY Joined: 03.01.2018
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equating the lives of athletes with our own is always stupid regardless of the context
its like when someone compares the salary of a million dollar athlete to so,ebody who works their balls off 50 hours a week for 20 dollars an hour
the comparison is always dumb no matter how you cut it - jimbro83
if i have cancer and an athlete has cancer is it different? what are you saying |
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climbdenali12
New York Rangers |
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Location: MSG sec 226 Row 17 Seats 23-24 Joined: 11.18.2008
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that makes no sense. if your brain decides to go haywire on you thats not something you can control and can be catastrophic.
for example:
I was a normal functioning adult in my early 20's. Starting my career, dating, going out to the bars, etc. One day at work i thought i was going to die, out of nowhere. Tunnel vision, heart racing, throwing up, sweating, etc. Long story short it turned out i had all of a sudden gotten a panic attack for no reason at all. Couldnt leave my apartment for 2 weeks. After i finally got to see doctors it turned out it was panic disorder with agoraphobia. Literally the thought of being outside of my comfort zone and getting another panic attack was giving me panic attacks. Every day. Multiple times per day.
Finally got it under control and then boom 5 years later i got smacked with it even worse. Months of that same thing. And this is classified as a form of anxiety, so you have no idea what Drouin had, except that he literally couldnt sleep. If i was a professional athlete would this somehow be my fault? - picklerick
If Drouin is able to right himself and is able to come back and play, any contract given to him will factor in his unreliability just as if he had a herniated disk in his neck.
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picklerick
New York Rangers |
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Location: New York, NY Joined: 03.01.2018
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but that ISNT my point
I care about what happened to you
I don't care about Jonathan Drouin - jimbro83
it wasnt about you saying you didnt care about him you thought he was in the wrong and should suck it up for $5m. if i was going through what i was went through and was $5m a year, then you said that to my face, i probably would've went donkey kong on you |
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picklerick
New York Rangers |
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Location: New York, NY Joined: 03.01.2018
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If Drouin is able to right himself and is able to come back and play, any contract given to him will factor in his unreliability just as if he had a herniated disk in his neck. - climbdenali12
this is a reasonable take and not at all what the peanut gallery were saying |
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jimbro83
New York Rangers |
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Location: Lets Go Rangers!, NY Joined: 12.25.2009
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it wasnt about you saying you didnt care about him you thought he was in the wrong and should suck it up for $5m. if i was going through what i was went through and was $5m a year, then you said that to my face, i probably would've went donkey kong on you - picklerick
what about Super Mario Brother's instead
oooh, how about Pitfall!
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JRR1285
New York Rangers |
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Location: Coach's decision, PEI Joined: 02.21.2008
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jimbro83
New York Rangers |
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Location: Lets Go Rangers!, NY Joined: 12.25.2009
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this is a reasonable take and not at all what the peanut gallery were saying - picklerick
I mean, if you are suggesting to me that I have lived and died with this team dying for another Cup since 1994, talk about this team for hours and hours every day, get back to the finals in 2021 and say Ryan Strome couldn't dress for the playoffs for anxiety and insomnia issues that I should be understanding about it?
I am just being honest, I think I would have gone Donkey Kong over it
but again, why would it matter
my overall point is, this is literally the least consuequential place on earth, this blog.
what we say matters so little, so so so very little
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JRR1285
New York Rangers |
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Location: Coach's decision, PEI Joined: 02.21.2008
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I think until we know what is\was wrong with Drouin he will be guilty until proven innocent whether or not it's fair. |
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JRR1285
New York Rangers |
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Location: Coach's decision, PEI Joined: 02.21.2008
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I mean, if you are suggesting to me that I have lived and died with this team dying for another Cup since 1994, talk about this team for hours and hours every day, get back to the finals in 2021 and say Ryan Strome couldn't dress for the playoffs for anxiety and insomnia issues that I should be understanding about it?
I am just being honest, I think I would have gone Donkey Kong over it
but again, why would it matter
my overall point is, this is literally the least consuequential place on earth, this blog.
what we say matters so little, so so so very little - jimbro83
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picklerick
New York Rangers |
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Location: New York, NY Joined: 03.01.2018
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I think until we know what is\was wrong with Drouin he will be guilty until proven innocent whether or not it's fair. - JRR1285
People need the clinical diagnosis and then they’ll be reasonable. Got it. |
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jimbro83
New York Rangers |
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Location: Lets Go Rangers!, NY Joined: 12.25.2009
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- JRR1285
damn right
we used to talk about jizz on here at least 20 times a day lol
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picklerick
New York Rangers |
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Location: New York, NY Joined: 03.01.2018
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I mean, if you are suggesting to me that I have lived and died with this team dying for another Cup since 1994, talk about this team for hours and hours every day, get back to the finals in 2021 and say Ryan Strome couldn't dress for the playoffs for anxiety and insomnia issues that I should be understanding about it?
I am just being honest, I think I would have gone Donkey Kong over it
but again, why would it matter
my overall point is, this is literally the least consuequential place on earth, this blog.
what we say matters so little, so so so very little - jimbro83
You said something. I disagreed with prejudice and injected my personal experience which directly relates to the topic. |
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MeltingPlastic
New York Rangers |
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Location: outside philthadelphia, PA Joined: 04.17.2007
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damn right
we used to talk about jizz on here at least 20 times a day lol - jimbro83
TJ? |
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JRR1285
New York Rangers |
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Location: Coach's decision, PEI Joined: 02.21.2008
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jimbro83
New York Rangers |
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Location: Lets Go Rangers!, NY Joined: 12.25.2009
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TJ? - MeltingPlastic
oh wait, 40 times
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Yea I already have that Hulu/ESPN/Disney + bundle for 13 bucks a month. So I am in anyway haha. I was hoping though all games would be on ESPN + so i can save money on NHL Center Ice this year - TPC
Cost of Center Ice went down this year, but I'm not sure if that's because it was full price last year despite the shortened season. I hope it's not because they're going to make fewer games available. |
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JRR1285
New York Rangers |
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Location: Coach's decision, PEI Joined: 02.21.2008
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TJ? - MeltingPlastic
I think he must be deep in some fat titties because I have not seen him in a while. |
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jimbro83
New York Rangers |
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Location: Lets Go Rangers!, NY Joined: 12.25.2009
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I think he must be deep in some fat titties because I have not seen him in a while. - JRR1285
I saw him the other night when we went to the Black Crowes concert
nah, he's got a girlfriend now, he's in looooooooooooooove
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TommyGTrain
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Location: Part of NJ where its Taylor Ham not pork roll Joined: 05.19.2017
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well I'm sure he was mentally able to sign his paychecks for his 5 million salary, or maybe he's got direct deposit
I'm not gonna be politically correct here
if the Rangers made the finals, couldn't score in the finals and one of our 5 million dollar guys didn't play in the finals because of that? I'm not going to pretend I wouldn't be pissed about it
I'm a hockeybuzz commenter
I DONT MATTER - jimbro83
I'll be honest --- I used to feel the same way. However, as I have gotten older ( and hopefully wiser ) I have seen mental health problems and disorders up close. They are REAL. Do some people fake and exaggerate? I am sure some do. But for many others, it is an uncontrollable issue that I wouldn't wish on an enemy. |
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JRR1285
New York Rangers |
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Location: Coach's decision, PEI Joined: 02.21.2008
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I saw him the other night when we went to the Black Crowes concert
nah, he's got a girlfriend now, he's in looooooooooooooove - jimbro83
Tell him we need some more craziness here. |
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