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fidopro
Chicago Blackhawks
Location: Service Temporarily Unavailable, QC
Joined: 08.10.2008

Jul 24 @ 12:26 PM ET
nice pick by NYI at 52
Mr.FunFacts
Montreal Canadiens
Location: Montreal, QC
Joined: 09.20.2015

Jul 24 @ 12:27 PM ET
I'm not a puritan so I must ask, why can't a 17 year old (apparently she was 18 years old at the time but I may be wrong) have sex? Biology suggests human sex and birthing is actually best in the teen years but religion and society have created this BS puritan standard so I need to know why can't a 17 or 18 year old have sex? See that's what you're missing from my argument. I lost my virginity at 15, I've never had a STD or STI, I've never had a child or impregnated a woman, I've never had a situation of sexual violence or any of that. Why would I blame the girls who were awesome enough to let me flop around on them for 34 seconds when I was a dumb kid?

The girl did nothing wrong

- Takemedrunkimhome

This becomes more of a moral and principle argument. One for another day. It’s just my opinion on the matter. Never said I was wrong or right just simply my opinion.

[talking about young sex]
Takemedrunkimhome
Montreal Canadiens
Joined: 03.08.2018

Jul 24 @ 12:28 PM ET
next Annakid Slayd single
- fidopro

It's somewhat funny in how tame this all is compared to NFL prospects and their "baggage" and the fan justifications. "He knocked her out because she was yelling at him in public"....ooooh, well if that's why he did it...
Mr.FunFacts
Montreal Canadiens
Location: Montreal, QC
Joined: 09.20.2015

Jul 24 @ 12:28 PM ET
Oh. Well if you’re sure …
- TurdFergeson

I mean normally this is how drafts work there a lot of phone calls going on. Obviously I’m not sure but most likely?
Takemedrunkimhome
Montreal Canadiens
Joined: 03.08.2018

Jul 24 @ 12:30 PM ET
This becomes more of a moral and principle argument. One for another day. It’s just my opinion on the matter. Never said I was wrong or right just simply my opinion.


- Mr.FunFacts[talking about young sex]

Puritans are funny...it's believed Mary was like 13 or 14 when she gave birth to Jesus....now it's no sex until marriage and marriage isn't legal until you're an adult and you're not legally an adult when you're biologically an adult but at a randomly determined age for reasons of political control. (frank)ing religion
Mr.FunFacts
Montreal Canadiens
Location: Montreal, QC
Joined: 09.20.2015

Jul 24 @ 12:31 PM ET
Classic victim blaming.

Bullpoop take, yet again.

- Mashadar

In your opinion. I’d have to say some people would agree with me on this one.
Darksyde
Season Ticket Holder
Montreal Canadiens
Location: Inside Henny's Head, ON
Joined: 07.11.2007

Jul 24 @ 12:31 PM ET
The talent of this kid isn't in question, never has been.

Did he (frank) up and do something monumentally stupid, immature, and just plain wrong? Yup. Don't *anyone* blame the girl for this.... It's like saying a girl deserves to be raped because of how she dressed.

PR firm or not, the kid tried to move on and distance himself from this draft, recognizing he isn't mature enough to move forward. Those wishes *should* have been respected.

Instead the Habs and GMMB bungled this, and badly. For a team that is intensely aware of the media, they sure dropped the ball here.

What's done is done, though. Let's all drop this and move on.
TheGame316
Joined: 11.18.2008

Jul 24 @ 12:32 PM ET
I'm not a puritan so I must ask, why can't a 17 year old (apparently she was 18 years old at the time but I may be wrong) have sex? Biology suggests human sex and birthing is actually best in the teen years but religion and society have created this BS puritan standard so I need to know why can't a 17 or 18 year old have sex? See that's what you're missing from my argument. I lost my virginity at 15, I've never had a STD or STI, I've never had a child or impregnated a woman, I've never had a situation of sexual violence or any of that. Why would I blame the girls who were awesome enough to let me flop around on them for 34 seconds when I was a dumb kid?

The girl did nothing wrong

- Takemedrunkimhome


Well, she exhibited poor judgement when deciding to consensually sleep with a person of such bad moral character, wouldn't you say?
Takemedrunkimhome
Montreal Canadiens
Joined: 03.08.2018

Jul 24 @ 12:32 PM ET
The talent of this kid isn't in question, never has been.

Did he (frank) up and do something monumentally stupid, immature, and just plain wrong? Yup. Don't *anyone* blame the girl for this.... It's like saying a girl deserves to be raped because of how she dressed.

PR firm or not, the kid tried to move on and distance himself from this draft, recognizing he isn't mature enough to move forward. Those wishes *should* have been respected.

Instead the Habs and GMMB bungled this, and badly. For a team that is intensely aware of the media, they sure dropped the ball here.

What's done is done, though. Let's all drop this and move on.

- Darksyde

Mr.FunFacts
Montreal Canadiens
Location: Montreal, QC
Joined: 09.20.2015

Jul 24 @ 12:33 PM ET
Puritans are funny...it's believed Mary was like 13 or 14 when she gave birth to Jesus....now it's no sex until marriage and marriage isn't legal until you're an adult and you're not legally an adult when you're biologically an adult but at a randomly determined age for reasons of political control. (frank)ing religion
- Takemedrunkimhome

I’m actually not religious at. Still young sex to me is a dangerous game. Some get burnt some don’t.
Takemedrunkimhome
Montreal Canadiens
Joined: 03.08.2018

Jul 24 @ 12:33 PM ET
Well, she exhibited poor judgement when deciding to consensually sleep with a person of such bad moral character, wouldn't you say?
- TheGame316

I'd say I'm beginning to understand why a lot of people here never had sex until college.

The girl did nothing wrong
Takemedrunkimhome
Montreal Canadiens
Joined: 03.08.2018

Jul 24 @ 12:34 PM ET
I’m actually not religious at. Still young sex to me is a dangerous game. Some get burnt some don’t.
- Mr.FunFacts

I guess then people shouldn't buy a house, invest in the stock market or go outside in the sun without a giant floppy hat...might get burned, right?
TheGame316
Joined: 11.18.2008

Jul 24 @ 12:35 PM ET
I'd say I'm beginning to understand why a lot of people here never had sex until college.

The girl did nothing wrong

- Takemedrunkimhome


Except execute poor judgement in deciding who to trust/have consensual sex with
cburgess
Montreal Canadiens
Location: Ottawa, ON
Joined: 10.31.2011

Jul 24 @ 12:36 PM ET
I mean normally this is how drafts work there a lot of phone calls going on. Obviously I’m not sure but most likely?
- Mr.FunFacts

100% he would of been drafted. In a cluster(frank) of a draft, I can see why they took him. And let’s not all act like all nhl players are great dudes you’d want your daughter to date.
TheGame316
Joined: 11.18.2008

Jul 24 @ 12:37 PM ET
I guess then people shouldn't buy a house, invest in the stock market or go outside in the sun without a giant floppy hat...might get burned, right?
- Takemedrunkimhome


If they have a history of poor judgement, they might, buy the wrong house, skip steps that open them up to liability. Get caught up in the hype and make poor investment decisions while lacking the necessary experience, choose to skip on the hat, but also skip in the sunscreen
Mr.FunFacts
Montreal Canadiens
Location: Montreal, QC
Joined: 09.20.2015

Jul 24 @ 12:37 PM ET
The talent of this kid isn't in question, never has been.

Did he (frank) up and do something monumentally stupid, immature, and just plain wrong? Yup. Don't *anyone* blame the girl for this.... It's like saying a girl deserves to be raped because of how she dressed.

PR firm or not, the kid tried to move on and distance himself from this draft, recognizing he isn't mature enough to move forward. Those wishes *should* have been respected.

Instead the Habs and GMMB bungled this, and badly. For a team that is intensely aware of the media, they sure dropped the ball here.

What's done is done, though. Let's all drop this and move on.

- Darksyde
it’s nothing at all like being raped. Being raped means you didn’t consent. She consented the guy is a pig for what he did, she however put herself in the situation. Taking SOME accountability for poor judgment is in no way shameful in fact it’s admirable.
Mr.FunFacts
Montreal Canadiens
Location: Montreal, QC
Joined: 09.20.2015

Jul 24 @ 12:37 PM ET
100% he would of been drafted. In a cluster(frank) of a draft, I can see why they took him. And let’s not all act like all nhl players are great dudes you’d want your daughter to date.
- cburgess

Agreed.
Takemedrunkimhome
Montreal Canadiens
Joined: 03.08.2018

Jul 24 @ 12:39 PM ET
Except execute poor judgement in deciding who to trust/have consensual sex with
- TheGame316

Yes she should have had a working crystal ball. Stop blaming the girl...seriously this is getting to the point where people are looking for any excuse to put the blame on the victim to justify their support for a move that isn't justifiable unless you accept the utter hypocrisy it's tied to.

Do none of you have mothers, wives, girlfriends, sisters, daughters etc.? Short of somebody openly saying they are compartmentalizing it because they want to cheer for their team I truly don't get this reaction
Takemedrunkimhome
Montreal Canadiens
Joined: 03.08.2018

Jul 24 @ 12:40 PM ET
If they have a history of poor judgement, they might, buy the wrong house, skip steps that open them up to liability. Get caught up in the hype and make poor investment decisions while lacking the necessary experience, choose to skip on the hat, but also skip in the sunscreen
- TheGame316

I think I'm about ready to take kick's advice. I'm done here...gonna go drop a line in the river
Mr.FunFacts
Montreal Canadiens
Location: Montreal, QC
Joined: 09.20.2015

Jul 24 @ 12:41 PM ET
I guess then people shouldn't buy a house, invest in the stock market or go outside in the sun without a giant floppy hat...might get burned, right?
- Takemedrunkimhome

Well you take a risk in each of those things. Invest in stocks the market may crash. Buy a house you can lose your job. Going outside to much sun can lead to skin cancer.
Regardless if you win or lose in whatever circumstance. We must take responsibility for our OWN actions.
fidopro
Chicago Blackhawks
Location: Service Temporarily Unavailable, QC
Joined: 08.10.2008

Jul 24 @ 12:41 PM ET
I think I'm about ready to take kick's advice. I'm done here...gonna go drop a line in the river
- Takemedrunkimhome

lets talk draft picks. Habs about to select twice.
pete26
Montreal Canadiens
Location: (HE, HIM, HIS), ON
Joined: 11.20.2008

Jul 24 @ 12:41 PM ET
I'd say I'm beginning to understand why a lot of people here never had sex until college.

The girl did nothing wrong

- Takemedrunkimhome


100% she did nothing wrong.

And he made a mistake.

I believe in second chances.

That is all..
Takemedrunkimhome
Montreal Canadiens
Joined: 03.08.2018

Jul 24 @ 12:43 PM ET
lets talk draft picks. Habs about to select twice.
- fidopro

Thank you buddy. My guess is one USHL forward who is sub 5'10" and one USHL d man who is over 6'2". I normally know little behond the first round of the NHL draft...this year I have absolutely nothing
TheGame316
Joined: 11.18.2008

Jul 24 @ 12:43 PM ET
Yes she should have had a working crystal ball. Stop blaming the girl...seriously this is getting to the point where people are looking for any excuse to put the blame on the victim to justify their support for a move that isn't justifiable unless you accept the utter hypocrisy it's tied to.

Do none of you have mothers, wives, girlfriends, sisters, daughters etc.? Short of somebody openly saying they are compartmentalizing it because they want to cheer for their team I truly don't get this reaction

- Takemedrunkimhome


I would want my daughter to properly get to know/vet any person that she decided to sleep with and have a good sense of their moral character and ensure that they had respect for her before doing so

If she randomly hooked up with a guy who ended up treating her poorly, I may be angry with the guy, but I would also consider it a lesson learned for her
Darksyde
Season Ticket Holder
Montreal Canadiens
Location: Inside Henny's Head, ON
Joined: 07.11.2007

Jul 24 @ 12:45 PM ET
it’s nothing at all like being raped. Being raped means you didn’t consent. She consented the guy is a pig for what he did, she however put herself in the situation. Taking SOME accountability for poor judgment is in no way shameful in fact it’s admirable.
- Mr.FunFacts

See, this is where you're wrong. The picture was NOT taken consentually. She had no idea. Hence the charges. That he plead guilty to. He was in the wrong here. Period.

You're pretty much saying nobody should fool around. I hate to break it to you, but girls and boys hooking up has been happening for eons. Fooling around doesn't mean you consent to everything with your partner. FFS.
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