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cabin
Buffalo Sabres
Location: We need a You're an Ass button, NY
Joined: 09.07.2006

Jul 29 @ 6:33 PM ET


- CaptainRivet

Miller ?
CaptainRivet
Buffalo Sabres
Location: on Bored, NY
Joined: 12.26.2008

Jul 29 @ 6:36 PM ET
Miller ?
- cabin

fixed
LetsGoBuffalo75
Buffalo Sabres
Location: He is all. He is eternal. He is love. He is life. He is Rob Ford., NY
Joined: 07.07.2012

Jul 29 @ 6:40 PM ET
yes because in the world today everyone except yourself should be held responsible. One of the problems with society especially North America, its everyone elses fault.
- toddkac

Did I say that, Mr. Assumptions? No. Let me guess, the situation is somehow ironic as well, right? I never said the blame should be placed solely on others, but when you're addicted like he was, you have little to no control on the situation. Someone should have, and NEEDED to, step in and help him. When you see someone in trouble, you help them. People do that on a regular basis for total strangers, but not a single member of his family could assist him? That's insane.

Also, Instead of picking fights that you always lose like a complete jackass, contribute and stop making enemies with everyone.
cabin
Buffalo Sabres
Location: We need a You're an Ass button, NY
Joined: 09.07.2006

Jul 29 @ 6:46 PM ET
fixed
- CaptainRivet

Took ya long enough rookie
homiedclown
Buffalo Sabres
Location: We want 1, FL
Joined: 02.24.2008

Jul 29 @ 6:47 PM ET
I can't wait till I finally get to say yes to this question.
- Sabresfan-365

so............................

we are not good?
Buffalo--Sabres
Buffalo Sabres
Location: 2 15/16, NY
Joined: 07.07.2010

Jul 29 @ 7:13 PM ET
so............................

we are not good?

- homiedclown




Dude, we're great.
Buffalo--Sabres
Buffalo Sabres
Location: 2 15/16, NY
Joined: 07.07.2010

Jul 29 @ 7:15 PM ET
So what your saying is he is sharing his pill popping addiction with his friends and family? hey mom I popped 5 today!
- toddkac



Actually his brother admitted supplying him with the pills that killed him. So yes. Please leave this site. You and a small group of others have turned this place into a sewer.
homiedclown
Buffalo Sabres
Location: We want 1, FL
Joined: 02.24.2008

Jul 29 @ 7:20 PM ET
Actually his brother admitted supplying him with the pills that killed him. So yes. Please leave this site. You and a small group of others have turned this place into a sewer.
- Buffalo--Sabres

I welcome all

LetsGoBuffalo75
Buffalo Sabres
Location: He is all. He is eternal. He is love. He is life. He is Rob Ford., NY
Joined: 07.07.2012

Jul 29 @ 7:22 PM ET
I welcome all


- homiedclown

HonkFortheGoose
Buffalo Sabres
Location: "___________ stinks."-Sabres89, NY
Joined: 07.26.2008

Jul 29 @ 7:30 PM ET
Did I say that, Mr. Assumptions? No. Let me guess, the situation is somehow ironic as well, right? I never said the blame should be placed solely on others, but when you're addicted like he was, you have little to no control on the situation. Someone should have, and NEEDED to, step in and help him. When you see someone in trouble, you help them. People do that on a regular basis for total strangers, but not a single member of his family could assist him? That's insane.

Also, Instead of picking fights that you always lose like a complete jackass, contribute and stop making enemies with everyone.

- LetsGoBuffalo75


To be honest, in all reality, I would say that his teammates should have been the ones to step in even before his family. He spent 5+ days per week with them. At that point, they were his family. And that goes for both his Wild teammates and his Ranger teammates.
cabin
Buffalo Sabres
Location: We need a You're an Ass button, NY
Joined: 09.07.2006

Jul 29 @ 7:34 PM ET
so............................

we are not good?

- homiedclown



I'm good . never had any complaints in my complaint box.
LetsGoBuffalo75
Buffalo Sabres
Location: He is all. He is eternal. He is love. He is life. He is Rob Ford., NY
Joined: 07.07.2012

Jul 29 @ 7:35 PM ET
To be honest, in all reality, I would say that his teammates should have been the ones to step in even before his family. He spent 5+ days per week with them. At that point, they were his family. And that goes for both his Wild teammates and his Ranger teammates.
- HonkFortheGoose

His teammates might as well have been family. Regardless, someone should've stepped in. Overall, I agree.
HonkFortheGoose
Buffalo Sabres
Location: "___________ stinks."-Sabres89, NY
Joined: 07.26.2008

Jul 29 @ 7:36 PM ET
His teammates might as well have been family. Regardless, someone should've stepped in. Overall, I agree.
- LetsGoBuffalo75


We can't assume that they didn't though. It's sad that his brother was essentially helping him out be we don't really know all the circumstances and the Dr's were the ones that really needed to make sure he didn't get to the point that he was looking to outside sources for it in the first place.

There's so many people that could be held partially responsible it's not even funny. And that includes Boogaard himself too.
Buffalo--Sabres
Buffalo Sabres
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Joined: 07.07.2010

Jul 29 @ 7:38 PM ET
To be honest, in all reality, I would say that his teammates should have been the ones to step in even before his family. He spent 5+ days per week with them. At that point, they were his family. And that goes for both his Wild teammates and his Ranger teammates.
- HonkFortheGoose



The night he died he was out drinking with the guys on pills. I'm sure that happened all the time. It was probably socially acceptable. It was probably like the movie goon, "Pass the Dutchie man".
cabin
Buffalo Sabres
Location: We need a You're an Ass button, NY
Joined: 09.07.2006

Jul 29 @ 7:39 PM ET
We can't assume that they didn't though. It's sad that his brother was essentially helping him out be we don't really know all the circumstances and the Dr's were the ones that really needed to make sure he didn't get to the point that he was looking to outside sources for it in the first place.

There's so many people that could be held partially responsible it's not even funny. And that includes Boogaard himself too.

- HonkFortheGoose

So many things can be hidden from family and friends. Only persons that knew where his doctors.
HonkFortheGoose
Buffalo Sabres
Location: "___________ stinks."-Sabres89, NY
Joined: 07.26.2008

Jul 29 @ 7:41 PM ET
The night he died he was out drinking with the guys on pills. I'm sure that happened all the time. It was probably socially acceptable. It was probably like the movie goon, "Pass the Dutchie man".
- Buffalo--Sabres


That's just it though. It shouldn't be socially acceptable no matter who you are or what you do. It's dangerous for the person doing it, and it's dangerous for the people around them as well. Who's to say someone like that isn't getting behind the wheel of a vehicle?

The whole thing has been extremely eye opening. That's for sure. I can't say that I understand what it's like because I hate taking pills for anything, never smoked a cigarette (and no desire to even give it a try) and I'm not a huge drinker. I'll have a few beers like once a week and that's about it.
Cheeseballin
Buffalo Sabres
Location: Rochester, NY
Joined: 07.05.2011

Jul 29 @ 7:42 PM ET
HonkFortheGoose
Buffalo Sabres
Location: "___________ stinks."-Sabres89, NY
Joined: 07.26.2008

Jul 29 @ 7:44 PM ET
So many things can be hidden from family and friends. Only persons that knew where his doctors.
- cabin


I agree with this to a point, but his brother was involved. He knew. And I believe the whole family knew about the rehab stint. Obviously that's way after the problem started, but they knew that it was a problem and 2 years later he died because of it.
LetsGoBuffalo75
Buffalo Sabres
Location: He is all. He is eternal. He is love. He is life. He is Rob Ford., NY
Joined: 07.07.2012

Jul 29 @ 7:44 PM ET
We can't assume that they didn't though. It's sad that his brother was essentially helping him out be we don't really know all the circumstances and the Dr's were the ones that really needed to make sure he didn't get to the point that he was looking to outside sources for it in the first place.

There's so many people that could be held partially responsible it's not even funny. And that includes Boogaard himself too.

- HonkFortheGoose

That was my point. todd tried to make it seem like I said all the blame should be on others, even though I knew he still should have plenty of it.
navinrjohnson
Buffalo Sabres
Location: We are finally good, NY
Joined: 12.08.2009

Jul 29 @ 7:46 PM ET
I'm good . never had any complaints in my complaint box.
- cabin

I am good as well

At the bar celebrating wing day

Start a body flush tomorrow. I will be pissed by Thursday
HonkFortheGoose
Buffalo Sabres
Location: "___________ stinks."-Sabres89, NY
Joined: 07.26.2008

Jul 29 @ 7:46 PM ET
That was my point. todd tried to make it seem like I said all the blame should be on others, even though I knew he still should have plenty of it.
- LetsGoBuffalo75


More of the blame should always fall on the person that has the problem. If they don't want to change, nothing that their family, friends, or anyone else does matters. They have to want to get past it.
LetsGoBuffalo75
Buffalo Sabres
Location: He is all. He is eternal. He is love. He is life. He is Rob Ford., NY
Joined: 07.07.2012

Jul 29 @ 7:46 PM ET

- Cheeseballin



Fixed.
Cheeseballin
Buffalo Sabres
Location: Rochester, NY
Joined: 07.05.2011

Jul 29 @ 7:47 PM ET
I am good as well

At the bar celebrating wing day

Start a body flush tomorrow. I will be pissed by Thursday

- navinrjohnson


ew gross.
navinrjohnson
Buffalo Sabres
Location: We are finally good, NY
Joined: 12.08.2009

Jul 29 @ 7:47 PM ET
I am tired of people making excuses for their poor choices
HonkFortheGoose
Buffalo Sabres
Location: "___________ stinks."-Sabres89, NY
Joined: 07.26.2008

Jul 29 @ 7:47 PM ET
I am good as well

At the bar celebrating wing day

Start a body flush tomorrow. I will be pissed by Thursday

- navinrjohnson


I just got back from a 4 mile walk. I was lazy today. Only ran 1.5 miles of it today.
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